AAP-60470 Add dispatcherctl and dispatcherd commands as updated interface to dispatcherd lib (#16206)

* Add dispatcherctl command

* Add tests for dispatcherctl command

* Exit early if sqlite3

* Switch to dispatcherd mgmt cmd

* Move unwanted command options to run_dispatcher

* Add test for new stuff

* Update the SOS report status command

* make docs always reference new command

* Consistently error if given config file

tools/grafana/dashboards/services_dashboard.json

@@ -102,7 +102,7 @@
             "-b",
             "provision_instance",
             "run_callback_receiver",
-            "run_dispatcher",
+            "dispatcherd",
             "run_rsyslog_configurer",
             "run_ws_heartbeat",
             "run_wsrelay",
@@ -112,7 +112,7 @@
             "-b",
             "provision_instance",
             "run_callback_receiver",
-            "run_dispatcher",
+            "dispatcherd",
             "run_rsyslog_configurer",
             "run_ws_heartbeat",
             "run_wsrelay",