Not auto-reload explicitly STOPPED processes
In development/debug workflow sometime we explicitly STOP processes this will make sure auto-reload does not start them back up
- listen specifically within awx/awx, so that changes in awxkit or
awx_collection don't trigger spurious reloads
- expand the exclude pattern to ignore the test directories
I verified what Seth found in https://github.com/ansible/awx/pull/12052, but would really hate to lose this functionality. Curious if folks on the API team can try this and see if it works for them.