More fun in the grafana dashboard. The rows organize the panels and are
collapsable. Also, tested with multiple nodes and fixed some
labeling issues when there are more than one node.
Update grafana alerting readme info and some fun prose about one of the
alerts as well as some reorganizing of the code for clarity.
finally, drop the time to fire for alerts because it's better to have them be a bit touchy so users can verify they work vs. not being sure.
