Refactor control plane upgrades with reconfiguration support (#12015) (#12103)

* Refactor control plane upgrades with reconfiguration support

Adds revised support for:
- The previously removed `--config` argument for `kubeadm upgrade apply`
- Changes to `ClusterConfiguration` as part of the `upgrade-cluster.yml` playbook lifecycle
- kubeadm-config `v1beta4` `UpgradeConfiguration` for the `kubeadm upgrade apply` command: [UpgradeConfiguration v1beta4](https://kubernetes.io/docs/reference/config-api/kubeadm-config.v1beta4/#kubeadm-k8s-io-v1beta4-UpgradeConfiguration).

* Add kubeadm upgrade node support

Per discussion:
- Use `kubeadm upgrade node` on secondary control plane upgrades
- Add support for UpgradeConfiguration.node in kubeadm-config.v1beta4
- Remove redundant `allowRCUpgrades` config
- Revert from `block` for first and secondary control plane back to unblocked tasks since they no longer share much code and it's more readable this way

* Add kubelet and kube-proxy reconfiguration to upgrades

* Fix task to use `kubeadm init phase etcd local`

* Rebase with changes from "Adapt checksums and versions to new hashes updater" PR

* Add `imagePullPolicy` and `imagePullSerial` to kubeadm-config v1beta4 `InitConfiguration.nodeRegistration`

(cherry picked from commit b551fe083d)

roles/kubernetes/control-plane/defaults/main/main.yml

@@ -248,6 +248,9 @@ kube_apiserver_tracing_sampling_rate_per_million: 100
 # Enable kubeadm file discovery if anonymous access has been removed
 kubeadm_use_file_discovery: "{{ remove_anonymous_access }}"
 
+# imagePullSerial specifies if image pulling performed by kubeadm must be done serially or in parallel. Default: true
+kubeadm_image_pull_serial: true
+
 # Supported asymmetric encryption algorithm types for the cluster's keys and certificates.
 # can be one of RSA-2048(default), RSA-3072, RSA-4096, ECDSA-P256
 # ref: https://kubernetes.io/docs/reference/config-api/kubeadm-config.v1beta4/#kubeadm-k8s-io-v1beta4-ClusterConfiguration